Saturday, 27 November 2010

Tiger Tiger burning low

One year ago today Tiger Woods drove into a fire hydrant outside his Florida home. Although he wasn't seriously damaged physically his reputation has been tarnished and his marriage to Elin Nordengren is over.

As he tries to rebuild his life,  former sponsors such as AT&T , Accenture and Gatorade have ditched him, whilst Nike, Procter and Gamble and Tag Heuer have 'de-emphaiszed' him. I'm not aware of ever having been de-empasized, but it doesn't sound too good.

After King David committed adultery and murder, he turned to God with great sorrow and a longing to know forgiveness. The Psalm he wrote at that time is a remarkable document. It begins simply and poignantly,
'Have mercy on me O God according to your steadfast love' Psalm 51.1
Paul Tripp has written a very helpful book reflecting on this Psalm, called Whiter then snow. Here's his reflection on verse 1.
Sinners and unafraid 
The older you get the more you move from being an astronaut to an archaeologist. When you're young you're excitedly launching to worlds unknown. You have all of the major decisions of life before you and spending your time assessing your potential and considering opportunities. It's a time of exploration and discovery. It's a time to go where you've never been before and to do what you've never done. It's a time to begin to use your training and gain experience.
But as you get older, you begin to look back at least as much as you look forward. As you look back, you tend to dig through the mound of the civilization that was your past life, looking for pottery shards of thoughts, desires, choices, actions, words, decision, relationships, and situations. And as you do this, you can't help but assess how you have done with what you have been given.
Now let's think about this for a moment. Who would be so arrogant and bold as to look back on their life and say, "In every possible way I was as good as I could have been?" Wouldn't we all hold some of those pottery shards in our hands and experience at least a bit of regret? Wouldn't all of us wish that we could take back words that we have said, decisions that we have made, or actions we have taken?
Here's what all of this means: If you and I are at all willing to humbly and honestly look at our lives, we will be forced to conclude that we are flawed human beings. And yet we don't have to beat ourselves up. We don't have to work to minimize or deny our failures. We don't have to be defensive when our weaknesses are revealed. We don't have to rewrite our own histories to make ourselves look better than we actually were. We don't have to be paralyzed by remorse and regret. We don't have to distract ourselves with busyness or drug ourselves with substances. Isn't it wonderful that we can stare our deepest, darkest failures in the face and be unafraid? Isn't it comforting that we can honestly face our most regretful moments and not be devastated? Isn't it amazing that we can confess that we really are sinners and be neither fearful nor depressed?
Isn't it wonderful that we can do all of these things because we have learned that our hope in life is not in the purity of our character or the perfection of our performance. We can face that we are sinners and rest because we know that God really does exist and He is a God of:
  Mercy,
  Unfailing love,
  Great compassion
  Because He is, there is hope-hope of forgiveness and new beginnings!  
Yes we really can fully acknowledge our sin and failure and yet be unafraid.
Thank God he neither ditches  nor de-emphasizes us.
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